Day 29: Blessings

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Day 29 – Thursday, Nov. 29
“If I could accomplish one thing (anything) in 2013 it would be…”
OR
Write about unexpected blessings of your health condition? Or how being a patient / caregiver has changed you

• Being wheelchair-bound means I can wear the pretty shoes rather than the comfortable ones.
• Related: I no longer have callouses on my feet.
• I get out of doing the dishes. What? That's a legitimate blessing!
• I never would have discovered Buddhist meditation if I hadn't gotten sick.
• I don't have to wake up to an alarm clock.
• Commuting stress? Looking for parking? Not a problem - I surrendered my driver's license!
• No yearly performance reviews.
• I get to spend more time with my husband.
• I've learned just how tough and badass I am as I face my continued frailty.
• I'm here when my husband needs painkiller gel rubbed on his back.
• We've started reading to each other. Yes, we could have done it when I was healthy, but we never had. It wasn't until other forms of together activity became too much that we settled on this.
• Going bra-less most of the time.
• Living slow.
• Needing full time care from my husband means I can never doubt how devoted he is to me or how strong our marriage is.

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